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Everyone Hates Marketers

How to Build an Authentic Social Presence Without Sounding Like a Bro

47 min episode · 2 min read
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Erica Schneider

Episode

47 min

Read time

2 min

Topics

Productivity, Marketing, Psychology & Behavior

AI-Generated Summary

Key Takeaways

  • Developmental vs Copy Editing: Most creators skip developmental editing (what am I saying, what's my unique angle, how does this help) and jump to copy editing (sentence structure, grammar). Writing is thinking first, then polishing second—reversing this order produces technically correct but meaningless content.
  • Specificity Formula: Transform vague topics into compelling content by answering five questions: who exactly is this for, what specific problem does it solve, what timeframe for results, what's preventing them now, and what objection needs addressing. Example: "how to write better emails" becomes "how new newsletter writers can 2x open rates in three months without spending their entire budget."
  • Experimental Confidence Method: Build presence by noting what makes you passionate or angry online, posting experimental responses without fear of deletion, then intentionally leaning into what resonates. Posts have short shelf lives—delete freely while learning what connects with your specific audience through trial and observation.
  • Hook-Body Balance: Spending 80% of time on hooks and 20% on body content wastes potential. Allocate 50% to each, then step away and self-edit another 50% on both. Great hooks answer "how will this help me" while great bodies answer "why should I care, how does this work, what's my next step."

What It Covers

Erica Schneider explains how to build an authentic social media presence by rejecting templates and bro marketing tactics, focusing instead on developmental editing, experimental confidence, and making content about audience needs rather than credentials.

Key Questions Answered

  • Developmental vs Copy Editing: Most creators skip developmental editing (what am I saying, what's my unique angle, how does this help) and jump to copy editing (sentence structure, grammar). Writing is thinking first, then polishing second—reversing this order produces technically correct but meaningless content.
  • Specificity Formula: Transform vague topics into compelling content by answering five questions: who exactly is this for, what specific problem does it solve, what timeframe for results, what's preventing them now, and what objection needs addressing. Example: "how to write better emails" becomes "how new newsletter writers can 2x open rates in three months without spending their entire budget."
  • Experimental Confidence Method: Build presence by noting what makes you passionate or angry online, posting experimental responses without fear of deletion, then intentionally leaning into what resonates. Posts have short shelf lives—delete freely while learning what connects with your specific audience through trial and observation.
  • Hook-Body Balance: Spending 80% of time on hooks and 20% on body content wastes potential. Allocate 50% to each, then step away and self-edit another 50% on both. Great hooks answer "how will this help me" while great bodies answer "why should I care, how does this work, what's my next step."

Notable Moment

Schneider's viral anti-bro tweet generated over 5,000 likes and confused readers so thoroughly that some quote-tweeted it in genuine agreement with the exact behavior she was mocking, creating an unintentional day-long parody fest across the platform.

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Episode Transcript

What happens if you take three struggling freelance marketers, lock them in a seventeenth century cottage, and don't let them live until we fix their businesses? In August, I rented an old cottage in rural Ireland and invited copywriter Rob, ecommerce designer Laura, and book coach Vicky, three freelancers desperate to stand the fuck out. And over two days, I ripped everything apart, their offers, their messaging, their branding, their lead gen, to find what was really holding them back. This is the concept of a new YouTube channel that I'm launching. You can watch the first episode for free right now. It's half an hour long. It's supposed to be entertaining as well as practical. I hope you'll enjoy watching it. So please set half an hour aside to watch it around your morning coffee, breakfast, lunch break, or on the bus or at the gym, whatever. The link to access this new YouTube channel is in the episode show notes. I really, really appreciate you taking the time to watch it. And then, you know, the usual to like it, comment, to share, talk about it around you if you like it. Thank you so much. The purpose of all of this, of being online and capturing attention, is to tap into other people's emotions, make them feel something, and teach them something. Everybody's selfish. As great of a person as you are, nobody actually gives a shit about you. They care about themselves. They're scrolling super fast. And I just wrote a newsletter about this this morning. I don't care if you've got decades of experience as the White House press secretary or whatever. You're you were a professor at an Ivy League school. I'm using all these American terms. Excuse me for that. But it doesn't matter. And people think, oh, I'm gonna just gonna whip up an online profile and be like, I was this amazing person and I did these great things. Follow me. Be amazed by me and learn from you. Absolutely not. Nobody cares about that. They check your credentials later. First, you have to engage them and compel them. And the way to do that is to make it about them and not you. In today's episode, you will learn how to authentically grow your personal platform that gets you clients. My guest today is the head of content for Grizzle, which is a b to b growth agency. She's edited more than 3,000,000 plus words in her career. And her marketing style really just speaks to me, which is the reason why I invited her today. I love her anti bro kind of stance, anti clickbait positioning, which is very much the same as me. She has a way with words that I can't really describe. It's difficult to describe, but it just feels real. It feels like it's a real person not trying to fucking trick me into buying stuff I don't need. And more someone who's actually speaking …

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