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'The Interview': Chloé Zhao Is Yearning to Know How to Love

48 min episode · 2 min read
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Chloé Zhao

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48 min

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2 min

Topics

Productivity, Relationships, Leadership

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Key Takeaways

  • Directing through surrender: Zhao creates scenes without pre-planning dialogue, using music to harmonize the set's energy and allowing actors like Jessie Buckley to improvise from dream journals. She defends spontaneous moments in editing, believing truth emerges from collective improvisation rather than directorial control, balancing what she calls priestess energy with general energy.
  • Death as teacher: Zhao completed foundational death doula training in the UK to confront her lifelong terror of death, which prevented her from loving fully or living without fear of loss. She studied indigenous death practices across cultures, discovering that grief remains constant but modern medicalization creates unnatural shame around dying, adding suffering beyond the human condition's natural design.
  • Midlife transformation process: Zhao describes spending eighteen months in a chrysalis period where getting out of bed felt difficult and previous life goals lost meaning. She compares this to caterpillar decomposition, where every aspect of identity breaks down before rebirth begins. Hamnet provided purpose during this dissolution, helping her navigate the transition from winter to spring.
  • Fear of tribal rejection: Zhao traces her terror of failure and criticism to a primal fear of being cast out from her tribe, which manifests at award shows when watching non-winners' faces. She investigates whether this stems from leaving China at fourteen or professional setbacks, but concludes that pinpointing trauma's origin represents another form of control she must release.
  • Enchantment as birthright: Zhao believes Plato and Aristotle removed mystery from their mystical teachings, creating Western civilization's rationality-focused foundation that restricts divine access to artists and elites. She advocates that everyone should access enchantment without paying for pop stars or formal education, using creativity and imagination as tools to combat modern spiritual hunger and soul-level emptiness.

What It Covers

Director Chloé Zhao discusses her filmmaking approach on Hamnet, her midlife crisis journey, death doula training, fear of impermanence, and how she creates through embracing chaos rather than control. She explores the connection between artistic work and personal vulnerability, explaining how films help her process emotions she struggles to express in life.

Key Questions Answered

  • Directing through surrender: Zhao creates scenes without pre-planning dialogue, using music to harmonize the set's energy and allowing actors like Jessie Buckley to improvise from dream journals. She defends spontaneous moments in editing, believing truth emerges from collective improvisation rather than directorial control, balancing what she calls priestess energy with general energy.
  • Death as teacher: Zhao completed foundational death doula training in the UK to confront her lifelong terror of death, which prevented her from loving fully or living without fear of loss. She studied indigenous death practices across cultures, discovering that grief remains constant but modern medicalization creates unnatural shame around dying, adding suffering beyond the human condition's natural design.
  • Midlife transformation process: Zhao describes spending eighteen months in a chrysalis period where getting out of bed felt difficult and previous life goals lost meaning. She compares this to caterpillar decomposition, where every aspect of identity breaks down before rebirth begins. Hamnet provided purpose during this dissolution, helping her navigate the transition from winter to spring.
  • Fear of tribal rejection: Zhao traces her terror of failure and criticism to a primal fear of being cast out from her tribe, which manifests at award shows when watching non-winners' faces. She investigates whether this stems from leaving China at fourteen or professional setbacks, but concludes that pinpointing trauma's origin represents another form of control she must release.
  • Enchantment as birthright: Zhao believes Plato and Aristotle removed mystery from their mystical teachings, creating Western civilization's rationality-focused foundation that restricts divine access to artists and elites. She advocates that everyone should access enchantment without paying for pop stars or formal education, using creativity and imagination as tools to combat modern spiritual hunger and soul-level emptiness.

Notable Moment

Terrence Malick called Zhao unexpectedly in January to discuss Hamnet. She told him she comes from his lineage as a storyteller, having lacked access to Chinese cultural traditions after moving West. His films gave her a sense of belonging in a creative lineage, though she jokingly acknowledged copying his signature shots of wind through landscapes.

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Episode Transcript

From the New York Times, this is the interview. I'm David Marchese. Chloe Zhao is an anomaly. At only 43, but just five feature feature films under her belt, she's already established herself as one of cinema's most distinctive and distinguished directors. And she's done it at a time when the movie business is increasingly averse to artistic risk and originality, qualities on display in all her work. She started with independent film, including the sparsely poetic neo western Nomadland, which won Academy Awards for best picture and for Zhao best director. She then tried her hand at an ambitious mega budget marvel movie, Eternals. And her latest is last fall's heart wrenching drama, Hamnet, an adaptation of Maggie O'Farrell's historical novel about the death of Shakespeare's young son from the plague and the grief his parents experienced after. It won two Golden Globes and is up for several Academy Awards, including best director. So how has she done it? Because as I learned firsthand, Zhao is an enigmatic, even somewhat mystical presence in person. Not exactly the sort of hotshot personality we often associate with big time Hollywood directors. But as it turns out, Zhou isn't much interested in simple or straightforward answers. Here's my conversation with Chloe Zhou. Chloe, thank you for taking the time to come speak with us today. I appreciate it. For having me. So I wanna start with an award season question. Your eyes just glazed over a little. I'm sorry. No. It's excitement. Yeah. Yeah. That was a look of excitement. Yeah. Yeah. With the first animal in the jungle. There's obviously a lot of, award season buzz around Hamnet. And by the time this interview comes out, we'll know what nominations the film did or or didn't get. But right now, the thing that I'm curious about is sort of what, like, the whole awards rigmarole stirs up for you. Because I imagine it could involve feelings, like, of envy or competition or it involves salesmanship or or glad handing, which I feel like are not necessarily, like, kinds of feelings or ideas that are interesting to you or come naturally to you. So how do you deal with this moment? I love that that's almost like a form of compliment you just did. You think of me a lot more highly than I mean, maybe you like doing it. I don't know. But I think the all those quite basic emotions, none of us can escape it. Right? And especially artists, so many of us, majority of us started telling stories because we didn't have the easiest childhood. So when you're work, right, which is the only way that you can seek connection and validations since you're a little child is being compared and judged. You could go as far as feeling a rejection of that. It's a rejection of who you are and whether your ability to belong to a tribe or be safe or be loved. You could go …

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