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Buddhist Hacks for Anxiety and Overthinking | Joseph Goldstein

77 min episode · 2 min read
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77 min

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2 min

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Productivity, Health & Wellness, Software Development

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Key Takeaways

  • Body Awareness Frame: Use the phrase "there is a body" during seated meditation to create a relaxed, whole-body awareness framework rather than narrowing focus to breath alone, which prevents over-efforting and manipulation while allowing natural breathing sensations to emerge within spacious attention.
  • Walking Meditation Progression: Practice walking meditation using sequential frames: start with "sensations moving through space" to dissolve self-identification, then progress to "walking through space," "walking in a dream," and "walking through the mind" to experience how different perspectives fundamentally change perception and loosen attachment to fixed self-concepts.
  • Practice Assessment Trap: Notice when you repeatedly evaluate meditation performance (how am I doing, is this right) more than occasionally. Frequency indicates neurotic pattern versus helpful check-in. Apply the question "is this useful?" after the eighteenth repetition of any worry thought to distinguish constructive consideration from useless rumination.
  • Cowboy Dharma Technique: When certain thoughts prove extremely seductive and repeatedly derail practice, give them zero airtime by immediately abandoning them with humor rather than aversion. This active letting-go works for patterns too compelling to simply observe mindfully, like repeatedly questioning past decisions during meditation retreats.
  • Dead End Recognition: Label recurring fantasies, desires, or thought loops as "dead end" at their first appearance to remind yourself these mental roads lead nowhere productive. This firm but loving mental stop sign prevents walking down long thought-paths that require backtracking, applicable both in meditation and daily rumination patterns.

What It Covers

Dan Harris interviews Buddhist teacher Joseph Goldstein about specific meditation phrases and techniques for managing anxiety and overthinking, including walking meditation methods, handling practice assessment, and using strategic mental notes to interrupt unhelpful thought patterns.

Key Questions Answered

  • Body Awareness Frame: Use the phrase "there is a body" during seated meditation to create a relaxed, whole-body awareness framework rather than narrowing focus to breath alone, which prevents over-efforting and manipulation while allowing natural breathing sensations to emerge within spacious attention.
  • Walking Meditation Progression: Practice walking meditation using sequential frames: start with "sensations moving through space" to dissolve self-identification, then progress to "walking through space," "walking in a dream," and "walking through the mind" to experience how different perspectives fundamentally change perception and loosen attachment to fixed self-concepts.
  • Practice Assessment Trap: Notice when you repeatedly evaluate meditation performance (how am I doing, is this right) more than occasionally. Frequency indicates neurotic pattern versus helpful check-in. Apply the question "is this useful?" after the eighteenth repetition of any worry thought to distinguish constructive consideration from useless rumination.
  • Cowboy Dharma Technique: When certain thoughts prove extremely seductive and repeatedly derail practice, give them zero airtime by immediately abandoning them with humor rather than aversion. This active letting-go works for patterns too compelling to simply observe mindfully, like repeatedly questioning past decisions during meditation retreats.
  • Dead End Recognition: Label recurring fantasies, desires, or thought loops as "dead end" at their first appearance to remind yourself these mental roads lead nowhere productive. This firm but loving mental stop sign prevents walking down long thought-paths that require backtracking, applicable both in meditation and daily rumination patterns.

Notable Moment

Goldstein describes getting a chiropractic adjustment mid-retreat that caused his body to freeze in shock, then spending weeks tormented by the thought "how could you be so stupid" until realizing this justified thought required complete abandonment rather than mindful observation to escape the anguish loop.

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Episode Transcript

This is the 10% happier podcast. I'm Dan Harris. Hello, everybody. How we doing? So today, we're gonna talk about some Buddhist strategies for two deeply related and very, very common ailments, anxiety and overthinking. I've been struggling with both of these ailments ever since I can remember. And one of the people who's helped me the most in this regard is Joseph Goldstein. Regular listeners to this podcast will be familiar with Joseph and his very funny, very wise, down to earth style. But if you don't know him, let me introduce you. He's one of the foremost Buddhist teachers in the West. He's been my teacher for about fifteen years. And I recently convinced him to write a book with me using a collection of these little teaching phrases that he's cooked up over the years. These are pithy, often very funny phrases that Joseph uses while he's teaching people to meditate and to incorporate aspects of the dharma or Buddhism into their lives. I have put together a list of about a 100 of these useful phrases, which are really just bite sized wisdom for your meditation practice and for your daily life. The book we're writing won't be coming out for several years, but I'm in the middle of conducting a series of interviews with Joseph, each one of them covering just a few of the phrases. And we will be releasing the interviews, right here on the podcast in the long run up to the eventual who knows when publication of the book. The first installment in this series of interviews, with Joseph about his phrases came out just a few days ago on, Thursday, January 1. If you didn't get a chance to listen to that, no big deal. This episode will still make sense. But, if you're curious, you can definitely go back and listen. It's it's worth doing so. Today, we'll be covering the following phrases, the practice assessment tapes, whatever works, cowboy dharma, dead end, is this useful? And then a quartet of phrases that you can use in your walking meditation. Don't worry if these phrases don't make sense right now. Stick with us and you'll get a thorough explanation coming up. Speaking of Joseph, he will be leading our free seven day New Year's meditation challenge which starts tomorrow. If you wanna sign up, just download my new app, which is called 10% with Dan Harris. You can get it at danharris.com or wherever you get your apps. When you download the app, you'll get a free thirty day trial, and that free trial will cover the seven day New Year's meditation challenge. So it's a kind of try before you buy situation. The challenge is incredible. Joseph gives a kind of master class and on ramp to Buddhist meditation, which is good for both beginners and experienced meditators. I was in the room with Joseph as he recorded the sessions, and I got a ton out of it. …

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