3 Simple Questions That Put You Back in Control

If you feel like you lose control in conversation more than you keep it, this episode is for you. I'm making this specifically for you. What I'm going to teach you if you listen to this episode, is exactly how to make sure that that shift of power returns back to you. I'm gonna make it short. I'm gonna make it sweet, and it's going to work. You ready? Welcome to the Jefferson Fisher podcast where I'm on a mission to make your next conversation the one that changes everything. If you would, wherever you're listening to, please click the button where it says subscribe. It means a lot to me and my family, and it's really doesn't cost anything for you and it's a a promise by me in exchange to say I'm gonna make you a better communicator. This episode is no exception to that. This episode is brought to you by Cozy Earth. You know, if you listen to my podcast, I love Cozy Earth. Why? Because they make quality products. They make premium products from their bed sheets to their towels to their clothes that they have on. I wear them all throughout the week because they're stuff that actually works. And if you're somebody who likes cozy earth, I'm gonna ask you to go to cozyearth.com/jefferson. Used to go jefferson, get up to 40% off. That's cozyearth.com/jefferson. Used to go jefferson for 40% off. If you're like me and you like cozy comfortable things especially with fall not coming on, you need to go try out cozy earth. Controlling conversation is a funny thing. You don't know how to describe it, but you know when you don't have it. You know when you could get it. It's in that time that the usually in the silence of the conversation. That as things are going, momentum starts to shift the other way, starts to swing the other way. And it feels like everything around you is kind of dissolving. Think of a time, most recently in your life, where you felt the power dynamic shift. Maybe it's somebody who's a superior. Maybe it's somebody who intimidates you. Maybe it's somebody you don't like, Or maybe it's somebody you love, and it still feels like you don't have something inside of you that's able to keep what's yours. And instead, you feel like you're giving it all away, your needs, your wants, your your power, your control, whatever it is, your truth, this episode is going to teach you exactly what to do. So how do we do that? Number one, you're going to use questions that force a reset in the conversation. Now what do I mean by that? Think of, like, your laptop or your phone. You you have a a button, typically, that has, like, a forced reset. It doesn't matter what's happening. Maybe you're on your phone and it it freezes or your laptop and it freezes. What do you have to do? …