Secret Agent (Evy Poumpouras): Never Be Yourself At Work! Authenticity Is Quietly Sabotaging You! - Evy Poumpouras

Don't bring your authentic self to work. I want your professional self. You can bring your authentic self to Thanksgiving meal with your family if you'd like to. Your authentic self is about who? Me, me, me, me, me. Everything is what's happening to me. What's in it for me? Do you know that you impact other people? You affect other people's lives? You make the work environment easier or more taxing? Can someone learn to be a better self regulator of their emotions? Yeah. So I've been around former SEALs, US Secret Service presidents, and I learned a lot about communication, reading people, confidence, and I'll share these things. So first of all Abby Pompouris is the former US Secret Service agent. From guarding presidents to reading liars, she now reveals the strategies she used to make anyone respect you, trust you, and give you what you want. I've been around very confident people and they had a really good circle around them, inner circle. Because if you're exposing yourself to people in an environment that are not good for you, that would actually impact your life negatively. You know, I always say say be careful who you try to save. Some people will drown you. And then the other thing I would see presidents do is they were very good at delegating. So they didn't need to know everything because confident people are okay with not knowing all the information. So your brain is like a bath tub. The bath tub can only hold so much water. If you keep putting water in the bath tub, it's gonna overflow. That's your cognitive load. My bath tub only holds the water it needs to hold in. And another thing that the Secret Service taught us is that it's really important to use your hands. Because when people don't see hands, it's a sign of untrustworthiness, like you can't trust them. So when you see hands, open hands, I'm no threat. And then there's communication skills, manipulation tactics, and a strategy to make good decisions. And I will go through them. But the two most important things are Just give me thirty seconds of your time. Two things I wanted to say. The first thing is a huge thank you for listening and tuning into the show week after week. It means the world to all of us and this really is a dream that we absolutely never had and couldn't have imagined getting to this place. But secondly, it's a dream where we feel like we're only just getting started. And if you enjoy what we do here, please join the 24% of people that listen to this podcast regularly and follow us on this app. Here's a promise I'm gonna make to you. I'm gonna do everything in my power to make this show as good as I can now and into the future. We're gonna deliver the guests that you want me to speak to and we're …