5 Times I Was Wrong and What It Taught Me | 10-Year Anniversary Edition
Episode
24 min
Read time
2 min
Topics
Productivity, Leadership, Philosophy & Wisdom
AI-Generated Summary
Key Takeaways
- ✓Embracing wrongness: Leaders who grow fast must change often and admit mistakes quickly. The promises made early from limited perspective become limitations later. Being wrong doesn't indicate lack of integrity but lack of information at the time.
- ✓Purpose over preference: When everything must match a leader's personal preferences, nothing outgrows that leader's limitations. Organizations reach broader impact by increasing tolerance for methods and styles outside the leader's comfort zone, letting strong people work their way.
- ✓Fair expectations: Leaders can maintain high personal standards while keeping fair expectations for team members. Others lack the same support systems, capacity development, or life season flexibility. Fairness combined with clarity enables great people to exceed expectations through value rather than pressure.
- ✓Guarding focus: Success creates options, options create distractions, and distractions diminish success. Every yes costs something, and too many yeses cost everything. The best leaders say no to good opportunities that don't serve the main strategic mission, fighting to stay lean.
What It Covers
Craig Groeschel marks the podcast's ten year anniversary by examining five major leadership beliefs he held incorrectly over three decades of leading, explaining how changing these views expanded his organizational impact.
Key Questions Answered
- •Embracing wrongness: Leaders who grow fast must change often and admit mistakes quickly. The promises made early from limited perspective become limitations later. Being wrong doesn't indicate lack of integrity but lack of information at the time.
- •Purpose over preference: When everything must match a leader's personal preferences, nothing outgrows that leader's limitations. Organizations reach broader impact by increasing tolerance for methods and styles outside the leader's comfort zone, letting strong people work their way.
- •Fair expectations: Leaders can maintain high personal standards while keeping fair expectations for team members. Others lack the same support systems, capacity development, or life season flexibility. Fairness combined with clarity enables great people to exceed expectations through value rather than pressure.
- •Guarding focus: Success creates options, options create distractions, and distractions diminish success. Every yes costs something, and too many yeses cost everything. The best leaders say no to good opportunities that don't serve the main strategic mission, fighting to stay lean.
Notable Moment
Groeschel reveals that many of the most effective initiatives his organization runs are things he personally would not choose or prefer, acknowledging his preferences as a 58-year-old grandfather would limit reaching their target audience.
Episode Transcript
Hey. Welcome back to another episode of the Craig Groeschel Leadership Podcast, and I wanna say happy New Year. And this month is a little bit emotional for me because this month marks the ten year anniversary since we released the very first episode. And I am humbled and blessed to hear about the different ways this podcast has impacted your leadership. And I wanna just tell you sincerely, you are why I do this. I believe with all my heart that your leadership matters. And when you get better, it helps everybody get better. So for ten years, I've been pouring my heart into this, and I hope to do it for ten more because I care about you and your leadership. As I look back over the last decade, we know so many things have changed. COVID hit. There's new, values and work rhythms. Tension span is decreasing. Trust in organizations is collapsing. A whole new generation, people are entering the workforce with different values and expectations. You've had AI, and many other things. And so when it comes to leading, if you're not changing, you're probably not growing. And as one who's led now for over three decades, when I look back at my own leadership, while my values haven't changed, my views on leadership, they're continually evolving and changing and many times in big ways. And so what I wanna do in the next couple of episodes is I wanna dig into some of those changes, some of the things that I got wrong. And in this episode, I'm gonna talk about five times I was wrong and what it taught me. In the next episode, we're gonna deal with some other more specifics that I believe can help you grow in your leadership. So, first of all, when I started three decades ago in leadership, I used to believe some things. I'm gonna tell you what I used to believe, and I'm gonna tell you what I believe now. These are some of the things that I got wrong. I used to believe that great leaders needed to be confident and right, that we needed to stand up and and and be right. But I learned, number one, that a key to growth is a willingness to be wrong often. And I wanna highlight the part often. That if you really wanna be growing as a leader, you have to be wrong, be willing to be wrong, and not just occasionally, but you have to actually be good at being wrong so that you grow. And I'll unpack this because whenever you start leading, and some of you are younger or newer in your leadership, you'll see that you start with this very pure passion. And that's a good thing. You're, almost naive in a good way. But the problem is you have limited perspective. You just haven't seen a lot yet. And this was me early on. And since your passion is high and …
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