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I Was Coasting in Sales Until a Six-Year-Old Humbled Me on the Ice (Money Monday)

11 min episode · 2 min read

Episode

11 min

Read time

2 min

Topics

Career Growth, Productivity, Investing

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Key Takeaways

  • The Coasting Trap: Coasting feels like competence from the outside and feels acceptable internally, making it harder to detect than outright failure. Sales professionals with 5-plus years of experience are most vulnerable — skills erode silently while quota performance masks the decline.
  • Beginner's Mind as a Career Tool: Picking up a skill where you rank last in the room eliminates the ability to rationalize poor performance. Without reputation to hide behind, honest feedback becomes unavoidable — a mental reset that transfers directly into sharper sales self-assessment.
  • Ego Auditing via Humility Practice: Blount Jr. identifies a specific pattern: experienced salespeople rationalize lost deals as "wrong fit" or "prospect not ready," avoiding real skill gaps. Deliberately entering a beginner context strips away those rationalizations and forces genuine performance evaluation.
  • Process Over Scoreboard: Shifting focus from commission outcomes to craft-level questions — how did the discovery call land, was the objection handled cleanly — produced Blount Jr.'s highest-value deal quarter. Measuring process quality, not just closed revenue, rebuilds engagement and performance simultaneously.

What It Covers

Sales Gravy host Jeb Blount Jr. shares how learning ice skating at 28, surrounded by six-year-olds who outperformed him, broke a years-long coasting pattern in sales and reignited his competitive drive and craft focus.

Key Questions Answered

  • The Coasting Trap: Coasting feels like competence from the outside and feels acceptable internally, making it harder to detect than outright failure. Sales professionals with 5-plus years of experience are most vulnerable — skills erode silently while quota performance masks the decline.
  • Beginner's Mind as a Career Tool: Picking up a skill where you rank last in the room eliminates the ability to rationalize poor performance. Without reputation to hide behind, honest feedback becomes unavoidable — a mental reset that transfers directly into sharper sales self-assessment.
  • Ego Auditing via Humility Practice: Blount Jr. identifies a specific pattern: experienced salespeople rationalize lost deals as "wrong fit" or "prospect not ready," avoiding real skill gaps. Deliberately entering a beginner context strips away those rationalizations and forces genuine performance evaluation.
  • Process Over Scoreboard: Shifting focus from commission outcomes to craft-level questions — how did the discovery call land, was the objection handled cleanly — produced Blount Jr.'s highest-value deal quarter. Measuring process quality, not just closed revenue, rebuilds engagement and performance simultaneously.

Notable Moment

After a decade away from competition following a serious pole vault injury, Blount Jr. found unexpected peace lying flat on the ice surrounded by laughing six-year-olds — because for the first time in years, he had nowhere to go but forward.

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Episode Transcript

This is Jeb Blunt, and it's Money Monday on the Sales Gravy Podcast. Make money, money, money, money. Make money, money, Welcome back to the Sales Gravy Podcast. I'm Jeb Blunt Junior, and it's Money Monday. So I'm sitting in for Jeb Blunt, and I wanna tell you a fact about myself. I spend my weekends on an ice rink, even though I have never been a competitive ice skater ever. Before we dive into the lesson, though, I wanna ask you a question. What was the last time that you were truly embarrassingly bad at something? Like, the kind of bad that you gotta look over your shoulder and see if anyone actually saw that kind of bad. Most of us in the sales world spend our entire lives trying to be an expert. We wanna be the person with all the answers, the one who closes the big deals, and the one who has arrived. But today, I wanna talk to you about the danger of arriving. I wanna talk to you about examining your own ego, and I want you to find a hobby that makes you look like a complete idiot. Today's lesson is you gotta have fun. To understand why I'm standing on a freezing ice rink at 5AM on Saturday mornings, it's best we go back and look at who I used to be. Like a lot of kids, I grew up defined by the jersey I was wearing. I played baseball, soccer, basketball, football. If there was a ball and if there was a scorekeeper, look, I was on the field. By high school, I was a four sport athlete. I was the guy on the state championship track team running the sprints. I was an MVP of our baseball team. I even did the spring musical because why not? It's not like I had anything else going on. Competition was my identity. And when I got to college, I took that fire to a Division three track team, and I found my niche in pole vaulting. There's a specific kind of rush you get when you're actually suspended 15 feet in the air upside down, held up by just a carbon fiber pole and waiting for the momentum to launch you over the bar. But the funny thing about gravity is that gravity always wins. Always. During my freshman season, I took a really massive fall. I landed straight on the, like, the top part of my back right below where your neck is. In between that injury and years of redlining my body, my lower legs and my back gave out. I was a guy who I I really defined myself by how fast I was, and then I was struggling to even walk to class. The competitive fire went out. I stopped competing. I I started building Legos, and I started reading books. I was a political science major. I studied economics. I played guitar. And look, none of that's …

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