#1048 - Trevor Wallace - Why Autism is the New Stolen Valor

That's really how do I how do I look? Cool. Silence. Alright. It's it's good. Does anybody you have 19 people on set, and everyone's like, I don't wanna tell him it looks like shit. And it's fine. It's good. Yeah. See, there we go. Look at this. Yes, dude. Is that better? See, now this is the problem. Now now that you've asked for feedback, all that you've got is Yeah. I know. Is, like, neuroticism of judgment. Okay. Yeah. And can you write some better jokes? I'm like, who's gonna put my outfit. Trevor Wallace, welcome to the show. Hey. Thanks for having me, Chris. Vogue published an article saying having a boyfriend is embarrassing now. Meanwhile one. I figured. Meanwhile Okay. Men are on dating apps saying that they're looking for a slightly autistic woman. Swaths of men saying they want a girl with a touch of the tism. Okay. I just want the touch. I don't even care about the tism. You know what I mean? Like, if whatever they bring to the table, I'm well, I you know what it is? Autistic women, like, from my experience, they're just passionate. They're just, like, I just that's all I've ever wanted. Dating somebody is somebody who's passionate about something. Mhmm. Whether it's a career or or or, you know, trains. Like, whatever you're passionate on, I'm passionate for you. Well, you were saying that about, hot girls that are just good at anything. Mhmm. Chess or DJing or Mhmm. Crochet stitching or something. That that is a a niche Yeah. That I think you're right as well. I think we like anybody that really loves I just want you to love something. Yeah. I don't care what your career is. Just love it. Can that be you? Can there something be you? What if that what if you are their hobby? A part of it. Sure. A part of it. Sure. But, like, I've been in relationships where somebody didn't have that that that void they wanted to fill up, like, love. And you you almost feel guilty if you're if you're too passionate. I would come home from, like, a show or film me something, and I had so much fun on this set or film me, and I love it. And then they're like, oh, that's nice. And you're like, here we go again. I mean, can we get her a zen or something? Like, perk up. Sean, like, what are we so you almost feel guilty. So, like, I just wanna come home and share a communal experience where you're like, how was your day? Oh, I love that I got to do blah blah blah blah. I love that I get to do this. So I've I've found that, just incredible where you can just both share and not feel this, like, weird one-sided guilt. That I'm doing a thing. I know you don't have a thing to do. Yeah. Or a …