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20th Anniversary celebration with the most memorable guests: Jason Reynolds, Marina Abramović, Chris Ware, Richard Saul Wurman, Rick Rubin, and Roxane Gay

46 min episode · 2 min read
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Jason Reynolds

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46 min

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2 min

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Career Growth, Health & Wellness, Relationships

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Key Takeaways

  • Childhood affirmations shape identity: Jason Reynolds' mother repeated "I can do anything" nightly from age two, creating language that fossilized in his body and eliminated fear around trying new things. He still whispers this mantra during moments of doubt, demonstrating how early verbal patterns become physical anchors that counteract adult insecurities and enable risk-taking in creative careers.
  • Normalizing mental health through exposure: Reynolds' father, a psychiatrist, invited patients with schizophrenia and addiction to family barbecues, teaching children that different brain functions are normal variations rather than abnormalities. This early exposure eliminated stigma and created comfort with neurodiversity, allowing Reynolds' friends to come out to him in seventh grade without judgment or discomfort.
  • Public behavior without accountability: Marina Abramović's Rhythm Zero performance placed 72 objects including a loaded pistol on a table, giving audiences complete freedom for six hours. The experience taught her that crowds can kill when given permission and tools to bring spirits down, but also that artists can provide tools to lift spirits, a lesson that took 25 years to apply.
  • Slow punk as innovation: Rick Rubin identified Flipper as the first punk band playing slow, sludgy music rather than fast tempos, inspiring him to start a slow punk band. Despite selling only 10,000 copies, Flipper influenced Kurt Cobain and demonstrated how niche audiences create disproportionate cultural impact compared to mainstream commercial success measured in millions.
  • Hip hop as montage performance: Rubin started Def Jam because existing rap records sounded like R&B tracks with rapping instead of singing, missing the DJ's role as star. True hip hop involved taking tiny aspects of old music and reinterpreting them through human dexterity and performance, not machines, which he documented because no one else was serving fans properly.

What It Covers

Design Matters celebrates its 20th anniversary with host Debbie Millman sharing excerpts from memorable interviews that shaped her interviewing approach. Featured guests include Jason Reynolds, Marina Abramović, Chris Ware, Richard Saul Wurman, Rick Rubin, and Roxane Gay, discussing creativity, trauma, vulnerability, and artistic process across 700 episodes since 2005.

Key Questions Answered

  • Childhood affirmations shape identity: Jason Reynolds' mother repeated "I can do anything" nightly from age two, creating language that fossilized in his body and eliminated fear around trying new things. He still whispers this mantra during moments of doubt, demonstrating how early verbal patterns become physical anchors that counteract adult insecurities and enable risk-taking in creative careers.
  • Normalizing mental health through exposure: Reynolds' father, a psychiatrist, invited patients with schizophrenia and addiction to family barbecues, teaching children that different brain functions are normal variations rather than abnormalities. This early exposure eliminated stigma and created comfort with neurodiversity, allowing Reynolds' friends to come out to him in seventh grade without judgment or discomfort.
  • Public behavior without accountability: Marina Abramović's Rhythm Zero performance placed 72 objects including a loaded pistol on a table, giving audiences complete freedom for six hours. The experience taught her that crowds can kill when given permission and tools to bring spirits down, but also that artists can provide tools to lift spirits, a lesson that took 25 years to apply.
  • Slow punk as innovation: Rick Rubin identified Flipper as the first punk band playing slow, sludgy music rather than fast tempos, inspiring him to start a slow punk band. Despite selling only 10,000 copies, Flipper influenced Kurt Cobain and demonstrated how niche audiences create disproportionate cultural impact compared to mainstream commercial success measured in millions.
  • Hip hop as montage performance: Rubin started Def Jam because existing rap records sounded like R&B tracks with rapping instead of singing, missing the DJ's role as star. True hip hop involved taking tiny aspects of old music and reinterpreting them through human dexterity and performance, not machines, which he documented because no one else was serving fans properly.

Notable Moment

Richard Saul Wurman challenged Debbie Millman's questions throughout their contentious interview, creating friction by stating he disliked certain questions and correcting her language repeatedly. Despite the producer wanting to kill the episode, Millman published it anyway. Wurman later wrote to say he thought it was actually a good interview, validating her decision to embrace uncomfortable conversations.

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Episode Transcript

Okay. Let's breathe first. Language has a way of living in the body. My feet could be sticking out of my ears. I know that. From the TED Audio Collective, this is Design Matters with Debbie Norman. Upon Design Matters, Debbie talks with some of the most creative people in the world about what they do, how they got to be who they are, and what they're thinking about and working on. On this episode, in celebration of the twentieth anniversary of the twentieth anniversary of Design Matters, we'll hear from some of the most memorable interviews that Debbie has done over the years. It's so interesting because it wasn't copying something. I'm not trying to make it exciting either. I just want it to feel real. We have these very limiting categories into which we we like to put women. At Schwab, how you invest is your choice, not theirs. That's why when it comes to managing your wealth, Schwab gives you more choices. You can invest and trade on your own, plus get advice and more comprehensive wealth solutions to help meet your unique needs. With award winning service, low costs, and transparent advice, you can manage your wealth your way at Schwab. Visit schwab.com to learn more. This podcast is brought to you by Wise, the app for international people using money around the globe. With the Wise account, you can send, spend, and receive in over 40 currencies with no markups and no hidden fees. Whether you're sending pounds across the pond, spending rials in Rio, or getting paid in dollars for your side gig, you'll get the mid market exchange rate on every transaction. Plus, most transfers arrive in less than twenty seconds. Join 15,000,000 customers internationally. Be smart. Get wise. Download the Wise app today or visit wise.com. T's and c's apply. This episode is sponsored by Gelt, your partner in taxes. If you're a business owner, you probably know that tax season shouldn't be just a once a year scramble. Yet for so many of us, that's exactly what it feels like, a flurry of forms, emails, and missed opportunities. Gelt is a modern tax planning and strategy solution for you and your business that takes a smarter approach, pairing real CPAs with AI to help you align your tax strategy to how your business grows. With Gelt, your dedicated CPA team reviews your strategy every quarter so you can optimize things like entity elections, retirement contributions, and hidden credits or deductions before it's too late. It's proactive, transparent, and built for growing businesses from creative studios and design agencies to consultants and independent practitioners. Make taxes part of the business plan and schedule a call at joingelt.com today to learn how your taxes can become a lever for growth. The very first episode of Design Matters launched on 02/04/2005. I recorded the show live from the Empire State Building where I worked at the time. My first guest was the art director …

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