Am I Lazy or Overstimulated? | Monday Advice

Does this sound familiar to you? You have some sort of significant project that you need to complete, like maybe your passport is expired and and you have to figure out how to renew it, or you volunteered to update the text on your organization's website and you're not quite sure how to get started, and you find yourself day after day unable to make progress, it goes on your list and it stays there untouched. Now to the outside world, it might look like you're lazy in the sense that you know that there's something you need to do and you're simply not doing it. But you know inside that things are not so simple. You're not just sitting around playing video games. You're you're constantly in motion on your devices. You're sending and receiving messages. You're checking in on the news. You're tumbling down potentially productive rabbit holes, and your days are filled with this little p productivity, but not the big p productive accomplishments that actually matter. Well, I struggle with this sometimes, and I'm convinced that technology has made the situation much more common and much more worse. But what exactly is happening in our adult brains when we find ourselves procrastinating on important projects like this? And once we understand what that is, how might we fix it? Well, it's Monday, which means it's time for an advice episode of this show, which is the perfect opportunity to tackle these questions. So here's my plan. I recently came across a Reddit post from the, our habits subreddit that originally got me thinking about this topic. The title of this post was, you're not lazy, you're overstimulated. And it proposes this post proposes some answers to the questions that we just asked. So we're gonna use that as our jumping off point today. But then I'm gonna bring in the help of a psychology professor that I know, and we're gonna pick apart what this post gets right about our brains and what it does not, and we will use this updated understanding to identify some advice that will help any of us avoid the overstimulation trap. So if you're always feeling busy but aren't feeling accomplished, then this episode is for you. So let's get into it. As always, I'm Cal Newport, and this is Deep Questions, the show for people seeking depth in a distracted world. Alright. To get started, I'm gonna look at this Reddit post. I'm gonna read some selections from it, and then we'll go from there. Alright. So I'm reading from the post here. There's a version of laziness that has nothing to do with discipline, motivation, or character. It looks like laziness. It feels like laziness. You'll call yourself lazy because there's no other word that seems to fit, but what's actually happening is closer to a system overload than a personality flaw. Your brain has a limited capacity for stimulation per day, not a metaphorical limit, a real …