"Failure Is NOT THE END!" - Tony Robbins Full Intervention

Failure is not deadly, giving up is. And he said, I learned that day that you know what? Rejection and failure are just speed bumps on the way to success. What's your question, Anna? How can I help you? Oh, well, my question is how to deal with failures and to keep the mind always fresh and positive because I, I doubt myself when I'm losing time and I yeah, I'm, I'm, I'm getting sad of this, you know, when I have the feeling that I didn't, that I didn't, yeah, made the time really, like, productive. Yeah. Used it productive. Yeah. Well, two things. First of all, dealing with failures, you this is very similar to some of the other people in in a little different way. We have this delusion that success in life is everything you do works the way you expect. And in reality, the most successful people, as I already mentioned earlier, are the ones that have failed 10 times more than you, so they learned more faster. They were willing to fail more often, and they didn't score it as failure. That's the problem. When most people don't meet their expectations, I'm supposed to do this by now, like I said yesterday, you know, like, most of the time in early part of my career, I overestimated what I would do in a year, and I was disappointed. But I underestimated what I do in a decade or two or three or now four and a half. Right? And so our expectations are part of the problem as far as that's concerned. But also, you need to develop the skill. It's like so many people start a business. I I do, like, this business mastery program, and I'm always blown away. I do five days and nights with people from more than a 100 countries, all business owners. Some have billion dollar businesses like the guys from Airbnb that come, and some have, like, not even started their business. So they have a business doing a $100,000 gross. Right? And And we're all together for these events day and night, night and day. And what you start to see is many people have never developed the skill to run a business. They just thought, oh, I should know how to do this. I have a great product. I have a great passion. I love my customers. But there are various skills that if you don't have them that's why most businesses are gone in five years. Right? Half are gone in the first year. 80% are gone in five years. 96% of all businesses are gone in any ten year period of time. That means 4% make it. That doesn't even mean they're profitable. Just means they make it. But people have this idea that, oh, it's I should just know all this stuff. But no, you gotta learn these skills. And if you go to business school, I mean, they're giving you projections …