How to Be Someone People Look Up To

Welcome to today's episode of the mindset mentor podcast. I'm your host, Rob Dial. If you have not yet done so, hit that subscribe button so you never miss another episode. We put out episodes four times a week to help you learn and grow and improve yourself because if you can improve yourself, you will improve your life. So if that's you, go ahead and hit that subscribe button. Today, I'm gonna be talking about how to be the type of person that people look up to. The most admired people are not the loudest people in the room. They're the ones that are doing the hard shit quietly when nobody's watching. And the truth is people already know who you are based off of how you show up and how they feel around you. So if you wanna be looked up to, you need to start acting like someone that's actually worth looking up to. And so today, we're gonna go over how to become that person and then four daily actions that you need to focus on to become the type of person that's actually worth looking up to. The first thing is that you have to understand that the the respect that you crave is built in the shadows. What do I mean by that? We have to be honest. Everybody wants to be admired. Everybody wants to be looked up to. Not in an ego driven type of way, but like in a core human type of way. We all want to be admired in some sort of way. We wanna be seen. We wanna be valued. We want to be trusted. We wanna be respected as a person. We just wanna be somebody that is worth looking up to. But the trap of all of it is this, is we often chase the performance of being admirable, trying to show up as the interesting person or the person who is supposed to get respect from somebody or the type of person that's putting on a performance so that you like me and think that I'm a great person. But instead, what we should be focusing on is becoming somebody that is worth being admired. Not trying to act like somebody that should be admired, but trying to be someone that is worth being admired. People don't look up to someone who's trying to appear impressive. You think about that? Like, somebody's like, I'm gonna dress nice so that people think that I'm oppressive. They don't they don't think that you're impressive because of what you wear. Right? You get looked up to by becoming somebody that people feel safe around. And that when I feel safe safe around, like, you're not not like you can beat anybody up or like you're dangerous, or that you can protect people. But, like, how they feel in your presence is extremely important. Here's what you have to know. The respect that you're wanting from other people is …