Weak Boundaries Sound Like This

This day and age, we've found a new way to break our own boundaries, disrespect our own boundaries, and that is simply by over explaining them. If you are listening to this episode and you happen to be an over explainer, you know exactly how defeating it is to feel like I have this boundary that I want to set, but gosh, I it's just not setting the right way. What am I doing wrong? Well, I am going to tell you exactly why over explaining is slowly washing away every hard line that you make in the sand. Alright? And at the end of this episode, I'm gonna give you some takeaway points, some statements that you can use to make sure that that doesn't happen again because your boundaries are statements. They are not things that are up for discussion. Big difference. All that and more coming up. Welcome to the Jefferson Fisher podcast where I'm on a mission to make your next conversation the one that changes everything. I have a short announcement and that is something exciting for me. That is the next conversation workbook is officially out for sale. You can find the links down in the show notes, short practical exercises for arguing less and talking more. If you enjoy learning tips and getting into things like my book or the workbook or the next conversation, I'm gonna ask that wherever listening, wherever you are listening, you find the button that says subscribe and click it. Won't take any second. Won't take any money. It's just something that it's it's free, it's easy, and it tells the platforms that I make content on that it's good solid content. So that's my promise to you. Thank you. This podcast is sponsored by Cozy Earth. I love Cozy Earth. You know this if you listen to this podcast because the products are just so doggone cozy. I was traveling all this past weekend. We went to LA around the area, and then before that, we were in Dallas. And you know what I wore on the plane? I wore Cozy Earth. The sweatshirts that they have are probably the best sweatshirts around and especially in California. I don't know for whatever reason. I it's the weather. I think really when it gets like really cold at night, that hot in the day, a sweatshirt is the right thing to to wear a lot of the time. Cozy Earth, to me, makes the best ones. And I'll tell you the other thing that's been kind of a coveted thing in our house is they have this blanket. They call it the cuddle blanket. And it's definitely something you wanna cuddle with. So it kinda gets passed around in our house and something that we really, really enjoyed. From bed sheets to bath towels, Cozy Earth makes the best, the most comfortable premium cozy products there is. You can go to cozyearth.com/jefferson. Use the code jefferson and get …