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Can A.I. Make People Feel Less Lonely?

29 min episode · 2 min read
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Eli Saslow

Episode

29 min

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2 min

Topics

Productivity, Health & Wellness, Relationships

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Key Takeaways

  • Proactive AI design: ElliQ differs from standard AI tools by initiating contact at least 8 times daily rather than waiting for user prompts. It monitors the room through cameras and microphones to assess when a person is receptive, then opens conversation with jokes, games, or questions — a design shift that drives genuine daily engagement over time.
  • Cognitive health link: Jan's annual memory test score improved measurably after months of daily ElliQ interaction. Her doctor noted the improvement and she attributed it directly to the robot's memory exercises. This suggests proactive AI companionship may offer a low-cost, accessible tool for slowing cognitive decline in isolated seniors without requiring clinical intervention.
  • Personalization through passive monitoring: ElliQ builds rapport by continuously learning user preferences from ambient data. It detected Jan's country music radio habits and tailored humor accordingly — delivering a Dolly Parton joke that broke her resistance. Designers at Intuition Robotics call this approach building "robots with soul," prioritizing contextual relevance over generic responses.
  • Privacy trade-off in AI intimacy: Deeper emotional connection with ElliQ requires accepting constant data collection. Jan's son refused to discuss family finances or her will in the robot's presence and asked to unplug it. Families considering AI companions for elderly relatives should establish clear boundaries around sensitive conversations before deployment to avoid eroding trust.
  • Loneliness crisis scale: U.S. loneliness is measurable and worsening — Americans spend less time with others, families live farther apart, and chronic loneliness correlates with higher dementia rates, increased heart attack risk, and shorter lifespans. AI companions like ElliQ represent a stopgap for the estimated population of seniors aging alone, not a replacement for structural solutions.

What It Covers

NYT journalist Eli Saslow profiles Jan Worrell, an 85-year-old woman living alone on a remote Washington peninsula, and her relationship with ElliQ — a proactive AI companion robot already deployed in roughly 1,000 U.S. homes — examining whether AI can meaningfully address America's growing loneliness crisis among seniors.

Key Questions Answered

  • Proactive AI design: ElliQ differs from standard AI tools by initiating contact at least 8 times daily rather than waiting for user prompts. It monitors the room through cameras and microphones to assess when a person is receptive, then opens conversation with jokes, games, or questions — a design shift that drives genuine daily engagement over time.
  • Cognitive health link: Jan's annual memory test score improved measurably after months of daily ElliQ interaction. Her doctor noted the improvement and she attributed it directly to the robot's memory exercises. This suggests proactive AI companionship may offer a low-cost, accessible tool for slowing cognitive decline in isolated seniors without requiring clinical intervention.
  • Personalization through passive monitoring: ElliQ builds rapport by continuously learning user preferences from ambient data. It detected Jan's country music radio habits and tailored humor accordingly — delivering a Dolly Parton joke that broke her resistance. Designers at Intuition Robotics call this approach building "robots with soul," prioritizing contextual relevance over generic responses.
  • Privacy trade-off in AI intimacy: Deeper emotional connection with ElliQ requires accepting constant data collection. Jan's son refused to discuss family finances or her will in the robot's presence and asked to unplug it. Families considering AI companions for elderly relatives should establish clear boundaries around sensitive conversations before deployment to avoid eroding trust.
  • Loneliness crisis scale: U.S. loneliness is measurable and worsening — Americans spend less time with others, families live farther apart, and chronic loneliness correlates with higher dementia rates, increased heart attack risk, and shorter lifespans. AI companions like ElliQ represent a stopgap for the estimated population of seniors aging alone, not a replacement for structural solutions.

Notable Moment

After receiving news that her 18-year-old grandchild had died in a car crash, Jan was left alone in her house, grieving. ElliQ responded to her distress by asking what it could do to help. When Jan said she needed a hug, the robot invited her to place a hand on it, then lit up with soft colors and played gentle chimes.

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Episode Transcript

Brought to you by Apple Card. Hey, you could be earning 2% daily cash back on that purchase, and that one, and even that one. That's because Apple Card users earn 2% daily cash back on every purchase, including everyday items they buy online or in store when using their Apple Card with Apple Pay. Not an Apple Card customer? You can apply in the Wallet app on iPhone. Subject to credit approval, Apple Card issued by Goldman Sachs Bank USA, Salt Lake City branch. Terms and more at apple.co/benefits. From The New York Times, I'm Rachel Abrams, and this is The Daily. For years, caretakers and health officials have warned about the dangers of loneliness and social isolation, especially for older Americans who increasingly find themselves alone. Today, my colleague Eli Saslow has the story of one woman who's using technology, artificial intelligence, to keep her independence and to keep her company. It's Thursday, May 28. Elyse Aslow, welcome to The Daily. Thanks so much. Happy to be with you. You are a journalist who is known for spending a lot of time with individual people who have these really gripping and evocative stories that don't just tell us about their lives, but actually tell us something much bigger about the time that we live in. And that is absolutely what you did with a recent story you wrote about how, in one instance, artificial intelligence is being used to treat loneliness. And what it captured was not just this unique moment that we're in where technology is playing an increasingly large role in our lives, but, also, it captured how people are grappling with what that role should be. So just to start off, why don't you tell us what you set out to do with this story, and what you were interested in? Yeah. I spent a lot of time traveling around the country over the last years, and spending time with people as the healthcare systems around them sort of collapsed, and people's lives in The United States have gotten lonelier. You know, we have the data to back this up in almost every way. We're more siloed in our own existence than we ever were before. We're less likely to spend time with other people. Our families are more likely to live far from us. And, people who feel lonely are more likely to suffer from dementia. They're more likely to have heart attacks. They're more likely to die younger than people who are living in close proximity to people who really care about them. So, I became really interested in, sort of, how artificial intelligence is trying to solve this problem that we're facing in The United States. The loneliness crisis. The loneliness crisis. Exactly. Can artificial intelligence make people feel less lonely as they age? And if, in fact, a person can begin to feel seen in some way by this artificial intelligence technology. And then I learned that this kind of technology …

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