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The Uncomfortable Science Of Sex Differences - Steve Stewart-Williams - #1120

153 min episode · 3 min read
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Steve Stewart-williams

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153 min

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3 min

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Career Growth, Productivity, Relationships

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Key Takeaways

  • Six-Evidence Framework for Innate Sex Differences: Stewart-Williams outlines six converging lines of evidence that point toward biological contributions to sex differences: early developmental appearance, persistence despite cultural pressure, consistency across time, hormonal correlates (especially prenatal testosterone), cross-cultural universality, and presence in related species. No single line is definitive, but all pointing in the same direction builds a strong cumulative case that socialization alone cannot account for observed differences.
  • Gender Equality Paradox: Counterintuitively, more gender-equal societies tend to show *larger* sex differences in personality and career preferences, not smaller ones — the opposite of what social roles theory predicts. This finding undermines the argument that patriarchy drives sex differences. One rebuttal is that people in segregated societies compare themselves only within their own sex, but this explanation fails to account for the paradox appearing in objective measures like spatial ability and physical traits.
  • Reproductive Variance as the Root Driver: Most sex differences trace back to the difference in maximum potential offspring between males and females. Because females invest more per offspring through gestation, birth, and nursing, their reproductive ceiling is lower. Males, facing higher variance in reproductive success — some producing many offspring, others none — face stronger selection pressure for traits like aggression, risk-taking, status-seeking, and interest in sexual variety.
  • Casual Sex Asymmetry Data: Men score roughly one standard deviation higher than women on sociosexuality (interest in no-strings-attached sex), meaning in any random male-female pairing, the man scores higher approximately 67–70% of the time. The Clark-Hatfield campus study found 75% of men accepted a stranger's offer of sex versus 0% of women. Gay men have more casual sex than straight men; lesbians have less than straight women — revealing each sex's baseline preferences unshaped by the other sex's constraints.
  • Short-Term vs. Long-Term Mate Preferences: Women's preference for physical attractiveness in a male partner equals or exceeds men's preference in short-term mating contexts, even though men weight looks more heavily in long-term partners. The evolutionary logic: in short-term encounters, genes are the only male contribution, so physical indicators of genetic quality dominate. In long-term contexts, women weight resources and status more heavily because these predict investment capacity in biparental care.

What It Covers

Evolutionary psychologist Steve Stewart-Williams joins Chris Williamson to examine the biological and evolutionary foundations of human sex differences. Drawing on six distinct lines of evidence, they cover reproductive variance, parental investment theory, mate preferences, aggression patterns, casual sex asymmetries, and the gender equality paradox — separating evolutionary explanation from moral justification throughout.

Key Questions Answered

  • Six-Evidence Framework for Innate Sex Differences: Stewart-Williams outlines six converging lines of evidence that point toward biological contributions to sex differences: early developmental appearance, persistence despite cultural pressure, consistency across time, hormonal correlates (especially prenatal testosterone), cross-cultural universality, and presence in related species. No single line is definitive, but all pointing in the same direction builds a strong cumulative case that socialization alone cannot account for observed differences.
  • Gender Equality Paradox: Counterintuitively, more gender-equal societies tend to show *larger* sex differences in personality and career preferences, not smaller ones — the opposite of what social roles theory predicts. This finding undermines the argument that patriarchy drives sex differences. One rebuttal is that people in segregated societies compare themselves only within their own sex, but this explanation fails to account for the paradox appearing in objective measures like spatial ability and physical traits.
  • Reproductive Variance as the Root Driver: Most sex differences trace back to the difference in maximum potential offspring between males and females. Because females invest more per offspring through gestation, birth, and nursing, their reproductive ceiling is lower. Males, facing higher variance in reproductive success — some producing many offspring, others none — face stronger selection pressure for traits like aggression, risk-taking, status-seeking, and interest in sexual variety.
  • Casual Sex Asymmetry Data: Men score roughly one standard deviation higher than women on sociosexuality (interest in no-strings-attached sex), meaning in any random male-female pairing, the man scores higher approximately 67–70% of the time. The Clark-Hatfield campus study found 75% of men accepted a stranger's offer of sex versus 0% of women. Gay men have more casual sex than straight men; lesbians have less than straight women — revealing each sex's baseline preferences unshaped by the other sex's constraints.
  • Short-Term vs. Long-Term Mate Preferences: Women's preference for physical attractiveness in a male partner equals or exceeds men's preference in short-term mating contexts, even though men weight looks more heavily in long-term partners. The evolutionary logic: in short-term encounters, genes are the only male contribution, so physical indicators of genetic quality dominate. In long-term contexts, women weight resources and status more heavily because these predict investment capacity in biparental care.
  • Aggression Sex Difference Scales with Intensity: The male-female gap in aggression grows larger as aggression severity increases. Verbal aggression shows roughly a 0.5 Cohen's d effect size. Physical aggression is larger. Violent crime is substantially male-dominated. Homicide perpetration exceeds 90% male in every nation with available data. Chimpanzees show virtually identical ratios — 92% male perpetrators, 73% male victims — matching human figures of 95% and 70–80%, suggesting deep evolutionary rather than cultural origins.
  • Naturalistic Fallacy and Moral Neutrality: Evolutionary explanations describe *why* traits exist, not whether they are good or permissible. The same logical error applies whether the cause is evolutionary or sociocultural — identifying a cause does not dissolve individual responsibility. Stewart-Williams argues that holding people accountable remains a useful social institution regardless of causal origins, and that evolutionary findings disprove historical sexist science rather than continuing it, since most psychological sex differences are modest with substantial within-sex variation.

Notable Moment

Stewart-Williams reveals that the single largest psychological sex difference is one researchers routinely omit from academic summaries: the sex each sex is primarily attracted to. When framed that way, it becomes obvious — yet its clear evolutionary rationale and enormous effect size go consistently unmentioned, exposing a blind spot in how scientists catalog and communicate human sex differences.

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Episode Transcript

Do you think that you could have published this book six years ago? I think that I could have, but it would have been, less wise move. I think it would have gone down, a lot worse six years ago. Things have kinda cooled off a little bit, I think. Why is talking about sex differences so controversial? Well it's a good question and I think that it's a few things. I mean sometimes it surprises me because sometimes I think a lot of the differences that we're talking about they're really quite modest differences, They are often differences in preferences rather than cognitive abilities, so they're kind of neutral as far as I'm concerned. And if anything, I think probably they put men in a worse light than women. So sometimes it surprises me, but I think really the main reason is our long history of sexism against women and I think that we've got quite a long science as well has a bit of a sordid history in terms of how we've spoken about women especially in the 1800s. I've got a quote, one one of my favorite quotes, one of my favorite examples of this is from, scientists by the name of Gustave Le Bon, and he he wrote that, sure, there are some women who are as intellectually accomplished as your typical man, but they're about as rare as a as a two headed gorilla and so therefore we don't really need to think about think about them. So with stuff like that in our background is, I guess, not surprising that people are a little bit what a little bit nervous about talking about evolved sex differences, a little bit worried that if we start doing that, it's gonna open the door to that kind of that kind of sexism. I think they're wrong to worry about that. I think that really the science of sex differences has disproved those kind of ideas, and I think I think as well that we can treat men and women respectfully and, and humanely and treat them well, even if men and women are not identical on average on every single train. Yeah. I suppose the history of sciences to sex differences what the Nazi party is to behavioral genetics. Right. Right. Exactly. Yeah. Yeah. And I do think that, science is the solution to the early sexism rather than a continuation of it. Yeah. That's a great way to put it. It. Alright. Why is it important to study sex differences then? Why why should anybody care? I think lots of reasons. The main reason for me is I think it's just deeply, deeply fascinating. I just think it's It's the best. Yeah. It's the it's the best, dude. Me and you fell in love with the same buck, The Moral Animal. It it changed my life. Yeah. Likewise. It changed my life. It, shaped the rest of my career, just I think it's deeply fascinating. And, …

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