764: Stop Solving Your Team’s Problems, with Elizabeth Lotardo

What It Covers

Elizabeth Lotardo explains why compassionate leaders who constantly solve team problems create burnout and disempowerment, offering five specific questions to redirect problem-solving responsibility while maintaining supportive leadership and developing team capabilities.

Key Questions Answered

• •What Have You Tried Question: This question assumes employees have authority to act and creates space for honest answers including nothing, serving as a gentle entry point that builds problem-solving confidence without forcing immediate solutions or creating pressure.
• •Remove From Me Language: Ask what support do you need instead of what support do you need from me to shift problem ownership to the center of the table, allowing employees to identify support sources beyond just the leader and preventing automatic task handoff.
• •Pattern Recognition Over Firefighting: Ask what or who is getting in the way to help employees identify thematic obstacles like problematic vendors or departments, enabling leaders to solve systemic issues once rather than addressing hundreds of individual problem variations each quarter.
• •Intellectual Load Sharing: Ask what would you do if you were in my seat to force strategic thinking and reveal the complexity of problem-solving including politics, cross-departmental communication, and red tape, building appreciation and capability for independent action without formal training sessions.